Sometimes I feel like reenacting these commercials in the local grocery store. Get a bunch of ladies together to go stand in the paper product aisle and pass a 6 pack of toilet paper back and forth hugging it like it's our BFF.
|Hey look I finally made it.|
How often is the bathroom the place where irritations start in relationships? I know one man who got a divorce after 2 weeks, why... his now x-wife could not stand the way he brushed his teeth. Oh my! The mind boggles.
So as I tided up the bathroom today I kept noting the little things that irritate us so.
Diabetic supplies overflowing the tiny garbage bin on the counter, balled up dental floss that missed the trash, the toothpaste squeezed in the middle, the tweezers not put away, a sink full of hair clippings. Hair ties scattered like colorful rings across the counter. (please note this is mix of what irritates us both) We all have these small irritations, no matter how harmonious a relationship looks, we are human and will always find things that rub us the wrong way.
But then what do I see, the right kind of toilet paper on the roll. It made me smile and it made me think of when we bought it. I was so tired and my feet were hurting when we finally reached the grocery store after a round of Dr. appointments. He said "Go sit in the Starbuck's (in the front of the store) and call your friend. I'll get the stuff on the list." Gratefully I got a Decaf Americano doctored it up with cream and sugar and had coffee with a friend. Now isn't he wonderful, but the story gets better! He travels across the entire store back to me to ask "Is this the right toilet paper?" Holding up the Charmin... Who hoo I get to choose and I can tell him to get any other kind but that one." What a guy, willing to traverse the grocery store trailing two children in search of the perfect paper.
Will I still squeeze my toothpaste tube the way I like to and may he continue to squeeze it the way he likes to? Yup! Will these things irritate us still? Yup (some days more than others.) Will I still love him like crazy because he's so awesome Yup :-) That love of Christ, that overpouring of the Spirit within us that enables me to love myself and love others, is the reason I can.